Every year begins with new promise. For some reason, we find comfort in knowing that the New Year brings a clean slate and we can make new goals in order to make this year better than the last. However, all too often, we start out with good intentions only to let ourselves down because we don’t put in the time and effort needed to actually execute those changes in our life.
The problem with New Year’s resolutions is that people get entirely too impatient. Most people make big resolutions that are not easily accomplished in a short period of time, however once February gets here, many want to go ahead and quit because they aren’t where they want to be. In both love and life, you’ll never get to where you want to be if you just throw up your hands and quit.
This year, instead of making the same unfulfilled resolution from last year, take the time to think of a more specific and attainable resolution. For example, instead of just resolving to find love, make a vow to actually take the necessary steps that will help you find love, such as going on dates with at least ten new people, or hiring a professional matchmaker. If your resolution is to get back into that old pair of jeans, then promise to exercise three days per week or commit to making another small change that will help you get closer to your goal. By achieving smaller, short-term goals, you will keep yourself motivated far past when everyone else has quit.
In conclusion, we challenge you to stick with your resolutions and get out of your own way in order to allow yourself to achieve your goals. If you’re really ready to take the next step in finding true, lasting love, contact the professional matchmakers at 1 on 1 Matchmaking. We want to help make 2015 your best year yet!!